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Ewww, the vitriol that is going down after that article is monumental! There are parents who declare their undying commitment to playing with their kids, while others in humility offer they don't like doing it just like the washing or ironing, but see it as chore - something that has to be done. Then there are people like me.
I am not my child's play thing or play mate. To be clear I spend a lot of time with my kids. A LOT of time...quantity time. Life time. Chatting, cooking, colouring in together, reading and watching DVD's together. Together as a family we go on picnics, go to the park, ride bikes and all that other stuff kids like to do.
I am the teacher and instructor of my children (not their peer) and while I may get a lot of criticism I would also like to say it is not my job to make my child happy. And before the ranting starts, please just sit for a moment and think about what answer a child would give if you were to ask them what would make them happy. Ice cream? Willy Wonka's chocolate factory? Unless they are deprived of your company and attention, I can guarantee playing with you is not going to be on their list!
I guess I'm just bored and tired of the army that rises when someone is honest enough to say they don't like doing a certain part of motherhood. I am positive the reality is we all don't love doing it 100% of the time. It would be helpful for new mothers if seasoned mothers didn't make out that motherhood is a walk in the park.
It is my opinion that children need to learn to play with other children and they also need to learn to amuse themselves. That's not to say when I'm sitting at my computer or reading a book and my children involve me in a game of pretend restaurants I don't get involved and gladly sip up my pretend cup of tea they have just served me. It just means when I am busy doing the housework or paying bills I don't sit on the floor and play Barbies with my five year old, or play the companion of Dr Who!
I am really sad for the generation that is being raised to expect adults will drop everything and do what they request. I feel equally sorry for their future teachers and employers!